Everyone loves to be the person who is the
center of attraction among the crowd, the person whom everyone is dying to talk
to and getting the attention of everyone in the room. If you see such a person,
you will see that he is a natural talker and he is able to talk to anyone and
everyone with ease.
Would it not be great if you too could
become such a speaker with a magnetic personality to die for? You too can
become such a personality if you know what attributes you have to work on. Let
us now see what attributes you should work on to become such a speaker.
Learn
to Ask the Right Questions
There are some questions that you can learn
to ask that cannot be answered with a simple yes or no answer. If you learn to
ask the right questions, it can be the right conversation starter. So, learn to
ask right questions without crossing the limits of privacy that some people
would not like you to cross. When you learn to ask the right questions at the
right times, you can easily converse with anyone and everyone.
Learn
to Listen
People love to talk than to listen. But,
people who listen make people with a magnetic personality. If you learn to ask
the right questions and listen to people talk, then people will love to talk to
you. They will consider you to be a very natural talker with a magnetic
personality and will be attracted towards you.
Learn
Interesting Things to Say
People love to hear interesting things.
Make it a point to keep in mind any interesting things you might hear or read
so that you can use them in your conversation whenever it is apt. The examples
to such interesting things could be some nice stories, anecdotes, quotes,
jokes, etc.
Learn
to Compliment
If you genuinely like something about someone,
you should learn to tell them about it and compliment them. People just love
compliments and if you are genuine about it, there is nothing that attracts
people to you than being open about it.
Speaking is an art that can be mastered to
entice people towards you. People will be naturally drawn to a person that
interests them with their talking abilities. Learn the art of effective
communication and soon you will be the person that everyone is after wherever
you go.